We're used to measuring success by things: earn more, buy the car, the house, take the trip you've dreamed of. It feels like the answer — get all of it, and then I'll be happy. Śrī Prem Prayojan Prabhu turns the picture over with a simple example. Suppose a man has millions of dollars, a Ferrari at the door, a yacht, cruises anywhere he pleases. But if there's not one close person beside him, no one to share it with — he's left completely empty. So it was never the things we were after. The most attractive thing we seek our whole life is love: to have someone near, someone to give warmth to and receive it from. Even the chase for money hides the same hunger. And happiness, the lecture says, comes from love.